[quote=DeverKerbill;#3670936;1282922247]Guys i need some help too.. I just dont feel it anymore with my gf. in just 8 months, she has changed. or maybe it's her real self that she didnt show me on the early months.. she had a friend which is completely breakdown after she got dumped by his bf. and my gf told me that she might be like that too if i dumped her. so what should i do? should i still stick with her eventhough i'm already tired of this relationship? or should i break up with her, but it'll make her crushed?[/quote] If you limit your choices only to what seems possible or reasonable, you disconnect yourself from what you truly want, and all that is left is compromise, and when you do that, you're making one of the worst decision in your life, why??? because your giving her false hope, your relationship will be a big lie. We know that the truth really hurt but that will set you both free from misery. So what I suggest is that, be yourself, evaluate yourself (maybe you're one of the reason why she became like that, if not then...), Be honest to her about your feelings, tell her ASAP (Ask her NICELY and slowly for it will lessen the damage), listen to what she will say especially when she suggest a solution, "Everybody deserve a second chance" so if she ask for it, then try to give her a chance (ang gwapo mo kapag ginawa nya yun! ^_^ joke!) Be calm, even if she chide(sumbatan) on you. and lastly sing her "I just dont love you no more" by craig david JOKE! (just easing the pressure on you) lastly ... Thank her for everything especially for being a part of your life. walang iyakan! LOL