[quote=ino24;#3649667;1278691990]guys can you help me too? i have this boyfriend,i mean ex-boyfriend. and we broke up two months ago. we havent seen each other and didn't talk a long time last wednesday at my bestfriend's birthday,he was there i was there.my bestfriend and his boyfriend(my ex's bestfriend) set me up.i dont know why or how.but they let me talk to my ex then my bestfriend told me that he was the one who want to talk to me.but he doesnt want to tell her why. on the other hand,i met this guy on an online game. a month ago he confessed that he has feelings for me i dont know if im falling for him(w/c i shouldn't because i havent meet him yet)i dont even know if i should believe him but people are saying that he likes me. this is what bothers me,if my ex still wants me back and couldn't tell me,should i be the one who make the first move or should i move on and accept the love given by my online buddy.[/quote] If Your ex-BF really wants you back then he should have done it quickly by himself not needing any decoy or excuse. And about your "Online Buddy" I'm not actually against with that, but you should consider that one of the potential pitfalls of online dating is that people sometimes get lulled into a passive text/message/email exchange that lasts for months rather than pursuing an in-person encounter. The danger is that you run the risk of becoming emotionally invested in a potential match, only to discover that when you meet face-to-face, things fizzle. Don’t let that happen to you.