treating them what they want wud make them feel they're really special(though we must admit,they really are)..but on the other hand..we,girls,should not pay them much attention 'coz [i]sometimes[/i] they wud juz take us for granted knowing that we're readily available for them..make him miss you sometimes..nyweiz, if he truly loves you, nothin can keep him away. as a recap, i think, commitment will do.