wuu. a cheater can always hav a second chance, u gotta let him learn from his mistakes. there's no such perfect relationship right?! all u nid to do is to understand each other, let hm explain. it's not being a martir, it's just that you hav to work it out together. juz tell hm that u trust him with all your heart, he'll be eaten by his conscience and realize his faults. haha. if he's gonna do it agen, well.. it's his lost.