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wouLd it be fair to give cheaters a second chance..?
- nicondo
- » n00b
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1969-12-31
Re: wouLd it be fair to give cheaters a second chance..?
[quote=skar][quote=Padme]Once you lose my trust..
It's impossible to get that back.
So to answer it.
I really don't wanna give second chances.
Even when I love the person, i can't fully trust them anymore.[/quote]
We're just the same.
I've experienced so much betrayal to trust someone just like that again.
It's hard to take the risk of having second chances.
I, not only gave a 2nd chance but a 3rd chance but still, I ended up broken-hearted.
What I've learned is that in other ways, there are people who are so, so blind to see their mistakes.
They don't want to take their mistake whenever you make them see what's wrong.
Co'z for them, even they are wrong they are still right.
such a narrow-minded person.
hahaha. jeez. what am I talking about. 
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not all are thesame you know.. im not saying that im a cheater or I cheated some1 b4.. im just saying that a second chance for a person wont change anything.. just once.. and that's it.. people change, some people dont.. so that's it.. lol..
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not all are thesame you know.. im not saying that im a cheater or I cheated some1 b4.. im just saying that a second chance for a person wont change anything.. just once.. and that's it.. people change, some people dont.. so that's it.. lol..
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- marfillaster
- » FTalkAddict
- 300
- 0
- 1969-12-31
Re: wouLd it be fair to give cheaters a second chance..?
better not cheat coz trust is the hardest thing you can get out of a relationship
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- cheezysandy
- » n00b
- 37
- 0
- 1969-12-31
Re: wouLd it be fair to give cheaters a second chance..?
uuhhm, what a tough question huh? .gif)
anyway, i olweiz give my last last last.. last chance to the one i love.. i don't even recall how many times did he hurt me.. but then, i keep on believing that he'll get tired of hurting me then realize how much he loves and cares for me.. stupid??.. kinda 
martyr?.. maybe.. 
but that's how i love.. there's this one line in a song that "loving him is giving him the freedom to hurt you.." and it is so much applicable to me..
-SaNdY-
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- maztahchicc
- » n00b
- 75
- 0
- 1969-12-31
Re: wouLd it be fair to give cheaters a second chance..?
` No Way ' He Cheated On Me Once , He Can Do It Again , Again And Again !!
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- fenk.girl.
- » n00b
- 22
- 0
- 1969-12-31
Re: wouLd it be fair to give cheaters a second chance..?
well.. 
in some reasons you can forgive..
but if you forgive that person you can't return the trust you gave to them..
so don't cheat na lang kasi..
xori for the word ..peace..
coz some people don't accept xori.. 
coz "don't say xori wen da damage is already done"
it's only my opinion ..peace..
in some reasons you can forgive..
but if you forgive that person you can't return the trust you gave to them..
so don't cheat na lang kasi..
xori for the word ..peace..
coz some people don't accept xori..
coz "don't say xori wen da damage is already done"
it's only my opinion ..peace..
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- caichie
- » n00b
- 28
- 0
- 1969-12-31
Re: wouLd it be fair to give cheaters a second chance..?
[quote=glamour]I say, NO. Once a cheater... will always be a cheater.
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glamour is sooo totally right! there's this cute albeit cheating guy i once had a relationship with. i didn't really have feelings for him so when i caught him cheating i was like"ookaaaay, you cheated." then i gave him another chance but when he did it again i was like "go back to that hell hole from whence you cometh. see if i care"[not my exact words] and that was the end of it.
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glamour is sooo totally right! there's this cute albeit cheating guy i once had a relationship with. i didn't really have feelings for him so when i caught him cheating i was like"ookaaaay, you cheated." then i gave him another chance but when he did it again i was like "go back to that hell hole from whence you cometh. see if i care"[not my exact words] and that was the end of it.
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- aLohaBby
- » FTalker
- 246
- 0
- 1969-12-31
Re: wouLd it be fair to give cheaters a second chance..?
[quote=glamour]I say, NO. Once a cheater... will always be a cheater.[/quote]
huhuhu... di nman po lahat... i had cheated once... t'was when me and my boyfriend jz started off with the relationship... i was tempted cz i wasn't sure of myself and of him at that time... i confessed to him bout my faults and weakness and he gave me a chance, and we're still together for more than a year now... people have their reasons why they do foolish things... there's no way we can judge a person by his work whether it's good or bad... there's always room for change...
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huhuhu... di nman po lahat... i had cheated once... t'was when me and my boyfriend jz started off with the relationship... i was tempted cz i wasn't sure of myself and of him at that time... i confessed to him bout my faults and weakness and he gave me a chance, and we're still together for more than a year now... people have their reasons why they do foolish things... there's no way we can judge a person by his work whether it's good or bad... there's always room for change...
Last edited by aLohaBby (2007-07-11 10:44:46)
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- joeysmiles
- » n00b
- 17
- 0
- 1969-12-31
Re: wouLd it be fair to give cheaters a second chance..?
[quote=glamour]I say, NO. Once a cheater... will always be a cheater.[/quote]
I don`t agree with that in my opinion. I cheated many times before. And I stopped after I found the boyfriend I have now. I think it just depends if ever you found the right person for you. So, cheaters do deserve another chance.
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I don`t agree with that in my opinion. I cheated many times before. And I stopped after I found the boyfriend I have now. I think it just depends if ever you found the right person for you. So, cheaters do deserve another chance.
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- chocokim13
- » n00b
- 86
- 0
- 1969-12-31
Re: wouLd it be fair to give cheaters a second chance..?
i guess no.. they r the kind of people who dont deserve second chancex,. simply bcoz they might do it agen..
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- mherylicious
- » FTalkManiac
- 700
- 0
- 1969-12-31
Re: wouLd it be fair to give cheaters a second chance..?
[quote=hansz][quote=glamour]I say, NO. Once a cheater... will always be a cheater.[/quote]
Everyone Deserves a 2nd Chance..[/quote]
[color=#78c0ff] yeah right.... 
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Everyone Deserves a 2nd Chance..[/quote]
[color=#78c0ff] yeah right.... [/color]
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- singLenak0
- » n00b
- 1
- 0
- 1969-12-31
Re: wouLd it be fair to give cheaters a second chance..?
n0pe...cheaters will always be cheaters..,,d0 n0t let them f00l y0u f0r the sec0nd time...
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- maderpaker
- » Banned
- 287
- 0
- 1969-12-31
Re: wouLd it be fair to give cheaters a second chance..?
heck.. i give her.. probably.. 3rd time now.. and i dont know if she will ever stop hurting me.. but i still love her... i just cant forget her
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- teenah
- » n00b
- 91
- 0
- 1969-12-31
Re: wouLd it be fair to give cheaters a second chance..?
[quote=maderpaker]heck.. i give her.. probably.. 3rd time now.. and i dont know if she will ever stop hurting me.. but i still love her... i just cant forget her[/quote]
[b] well i guess that's real love..[/b]
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