ehehe thanks for the approval of a mod about opening this topic..i post this on a wrong topic..ehehe:D ok now i'm suggesting two things: 1.why not put an ftalk consultant? where members will consult with him/her..then the consultant will decide if a certain problem should be discussed through a topic with a time limit..then after being discussed..the consultant will report to admin because admin still has the final decision..there should be 1 consultant per section to be fair to all..after the consultant's report followed by admin's decision..the case will be closed.. 2.i think its also nice to have a section called "Friendster Court" where the consultant will make a problem topic to be discussed..just like a supreme court or whatsoever..hehe its just my wild imagination..nvm about it..just wanna share my thoughts:D i'm just suggesting this to be fair to all..so that there won't be a sudden topic about an unwanted case and to avoid uncontrollable arguements between the members.. if not granted..i'll open a topic "Friendster Court" though it is not as organized as it will look..but the formality of having a judge, who will decide what to do, and the members who will debate about a certain case..