let's use suitor A and suitor B suitor A == the one courting u for 5 months suitor B == ur crush i think itz better if u give both a chance and see which one suits you better... (OPTIONAL) explain the situation to both of them tell them that u r starting to like suitor A but then suitor B shows up and u r quite confused so u give them both the chance to prove who is better for you... blah blah blah situations like this, sometimes one guy end up saying "pinaasa mo lang ako sa wala" girls hate that, so if u don't want that dreaded line to be given to you, i think could explain and give them your thoughts hope this would help good luck girl