my x-gf had a break-up with me tru cellphone...

we talk about it last july.the most painful part for me is she cheated me. she told me she had a new one after a month.yes i agree bro. I dont how to get over the pain right now. [img]http://www.blogthingsimages.com/whatelementisyourlovequiz/earth.jpg[/img]

Teenagers act like those most of the time. Running away from reality that they must face someone and talk it all out. Running away is not gonna help at all, it will make things worse. You tell your friend about your problem and your friends tell their friends and the true story behind it will be lost becuse filipinoes love making "dagdag bawas" to every stories. Better sort things out before people get the chance to add or erase details about your situation.

[quote=jannahmataray]via sms.. coz i dont like explaining things.. if i already decided then i would really do that without explanation via sms[/quote] Well you should explain it to the guy why you are leaving him. Just imagine if your bf is going to do that to you, just break up with you and not telling you anything at all, how would you feel? Your bf is a human being, able to feel emotions just like you. Is it really that hard for girls to just tell the reason with "and my decision is final" to a guy?

[quote=eBay Ghost]Well you should explain it to the guy why you are leaving him. Just imagine if your bf is going to do that to you, just break up with you and not telling you anything at all, how would you feel? Your bf is a human being, able to feel emotions just like you. Is it really that hard for girls to just tell the reason with "and my decision is final" to a guy?[/quote] well, i know its not proper.. but i just like it that way.. coz if i will tell him personally i would burst into tears and then it will look like i dont wanna let him go.. i have tired breaking up face-to-face and it was "palpak" coz i cried a river and then he said, "masakit diba?" and then i said "yes" and because of that he did not agree with my decision.. u know guys sometimes cant comprehend well the phrases "leave me alone. get lost, i want a break up and stuffs like that

..that's kinda harsh,.. but i think it comonly hapens on people who have long distance relationships...

hmm..all of my past relationships ends with that freaky SMS.. i know they can tell me that in pers0n but why they didn't do that?? i've already asked them but they didn't tell me why.. now, one of them are having a commitment with me again.. but until now, whenever i asked him, he didn't answer me.. can u pls answer me, why????

hmm..ive experince this bull-shit kind of break-up 2 months ago..she broke up with me on ym!!! and now that im home, i tried to talk to her..and that's it..we had our formal break-up on her b-day last month..

[quote=edimax.altec]hmm.. you said you don't like commitments?? lol... @topic through sms but we talked in person the coming day to clarify and hoping some other chance but there's no chance anymore she sed. [/quote] yes, i do.. lol but i can commit to someone.. but not for a very long time

Break Ups via SMS/Emails/Notes are dumb, in MY opinion. If you really want to break up with someone, do it in person. Its more effective, and not so lame/weak.