the best way to do is to [b]really forget everything[/b].. don't look back at your past.. just befriends w/ him/her... don't take it so seriously or it'll harm you... have a time for yourself only.. and also don't forget, ask [b]GOD[/b] for help... like me, at first I thought that it's really impossible to forget him.. but [b]TIME[/b] really helps you alot... he didn't become my bf but we only become M.U.'s... I loved him eversince I saw him the first time we met each other.. my advice is, [b]DON'T LOSE HOPE AND ALWAYS PRAY THAT NO MATTER WHAT THE SITUATION IS, EVEN IF IT IS REALLY HARD TO FORGET, REMEMBER EVERYONE IS ALWAYS THERE FOR YOU...:][/b]