haha i experienced that with my errm first boyfriend..and i only had 1 bf until now.. well,its not that i cant move on,im just afraid to be played again.. he said he loves me and also tells it to my friends that he-oh-so-love-me so much.. then one day,one of my friends told me that my bf asked her if he could court her incase we breakup..even if we werent breaking up yet.. for me,i just waited for him to announce our breakup.. thats when i was still stupid not to realize that his playing even if i love him and there's no reason at all to stay in the relationship.. oh well,i guess i will now be more careful in choosing guys.. coz it really hurts being played..awwts but it doesnt bother me anymore,past is past lol.. he cud die infront of me without me caring.. bwahaha kidding?