It's HARD, really hard.. Although TIME does heal your pain, It all comes back to you when you dwell on it. My advice is.. try, really try.. to take your mind of it. Do something you like doing. Get a new job, or start a new hobby that you like. Don't push yourself into a new relationship right away.. It's good to have time to yourself for awhile. Enjoy the company of friends and family. In time, you'll forget the pain and move on completely.