gotta go with Batman by a mile..... Batman-billionaire, has all the hot women, mentally tough, knows kung fu, villains r more realistic Spiderman goes from living in his grandma's house, to renting a rat infested broken down apartment(great upgrade), antisocial (took him 3/4's of the 1st movie to finally have the guts to strike a conversation with Mary Jane), cries in every one of his movies(1st it was losing his grandpa, then mary jane dumping him, then losing his best friend )