Nice thread you got here Everything is so messed up lately that people are now getting confuse on what's happening with some moderators and some members of ftalk. I would like to say something about this issue. I'm not posting any rants hatred or whatever, I just wanna clear things out. In our lil community problem arises -- and that's alright. But if we don't solve our problem the [i]right[/i] way -- that's where rifts and conflicts exist. We let our hatred and anger the better of us -- that's the fault of most members here. I too may be guilty of that. Instead of ignoring others who keep flaming -- we want to get back at them. And that's just plain wrong. Remember -- two wrongs can't make one right. If you have problems with a particular person or group of people, you tell them directly through PM and not by posting offending remarks in the confession thread or whatsoever -- but here, that's not the case. People prefer to post flames until everything gets out of hand. How can we fix this then? Stop talking about it. If you don't know the real story it's best to keep your opinions to yourself. If you don't have anything good to say, just keep your mouth shut. If you want the story read this. I want to keep this as short as possible. There's no bias reactions here. Just facts. [spoiler] Let's start with Portuniecho. Portuniecho is Fis.Ms' boyfriend. One day they decided to keep their relationship in check and decided to "cool off". But after 1 or 2 days, Fis.Ms suddenly became Eejhay's girlfriend. Portuniecho's friends barge into the matter when they saw that tunie got hurt and posted harsh posts in the confession thread. It's [b]wrong[/b] to meddle in someone else's affair but sometimes when your friend gets hurt you can't just standby and watch. You just feel that you have to do something. And that's what Portuniecho's friends did. After letting out their emotions and hatred, the issue DIED. Eejhay and Portuniecho even patched things up and made up. In short they're okay. So everything was [b]peaceful[/b] again. [i]Well, it was suppose to be peaceful anyway[/i] [/spoiler] part 2 [spoiler] Let's term the two groups involve as "Group A" and "Group B". Well it was suppose to be peaceful but then a moderator let Group A flame and post challenges and debates in the confession thread -- they even coined the term "wakaka" to the moderators and to members they refer to as "wannabe moderators". At first Group B ignored them. But after a few days Group A repeated the "challenge" and keep on flaming. Group B reacted and asked them to stop because the issue died already. BUT the thing is, because Group B "reacted" with Group A's attention seeking remarks, the moderator told them that it's their fault for reacting. And so Group B got mad again at this moderator and the whole situation intensified. [/spoiler] part 3 [spoiler] everyone knows it, it has something to do with emokidd and eejhay. This is just between the TWO OF THEM. I have no right to say what's going on between them because it's their agenda. It has nothing to do with eGroups or whatever so if members would talk about it PLEASE DO NOT INVOLVE EVERYONE -- do not tag people from class-s or people from class-x. Not everyone is involve. This is a personal argument and we don't have anything to do with it so please learn to shut up especially if you don't know the whole story. [/spoiler] Personally, I don't want anything of this to happen. I don't want Sir Eejhay to leave because of all of this. This doesn't feel [i]right[/i] at all. Let's solve this thing. IF YOU'RE a member or a moderator who has problems with a group of people or a certain individual, PM them personally or contact their group leader/founder. TALK TO THEM DIRECTLY instead of talking behind their backs saying she's a bitch or he's acting like God. If you think they're/he's/she's mean, harsh and acts inappropriately - tell that to them/him/her. Mention names and not blind items like " when will THEY ever stop?". Because How would they know if you're not telling them DIRECTLY. If you DON't have anything to do about this matter --meaning you are [b]not[/b] involve in any of this. Keep quiet and pray. If you just want to barge in and flame -- keep quiet and pray BECAUSE your flaming and challenges WON't SOLVE ANYTHING. You're making it WORST

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