Oh yeah, let me edit.

[quote=obsessed95]Hooray for the Peacemaker ! I totally feel the same way . I guess noone can stop Mod Eehjhay's decision . [/quote] I know. I hate it so much! But thanks, by the way.

[quote=♥brains&beauty♥]We judge people on how they act in Ftalk, but don't even know what they're capable of feeling[/quote] nice one lil sis

thanks for this.. Please Make This Sticky..I love it..

[b]I'm bothered Really, Didn't get a chance to Post on eehjhay topic, and I'm sadden on his last words Farewell...Make this Sticky. thanks for this Reminder.. This is For all of us[/b] [i]And to those who are selfish B*****D!!! You know who you are, May You rot in ****..[/i]

[b]Nice thread, this forum really needs it....For now i already said my piece and that's it....I won't say anything anymore....I'm focusing more on my real friends at Rockstars and The Cradle...So Take Care everyone! Keep Rockin' \m/[/b][b] Life Rocks! [/b]

Nice thread you got here Everything is so messed up lately that people are now getting confuse on what's happening with some moderators and some members of ftalk. I would like to say something about this issue. I'm not posting any rants hatred or whatever, I just wanna clear things out. In our lil community problem arises -- and that's alright. But if we don't solve our problem the [i]right[/i] way -- that's where rifts and conflicts exist. We let our hatred and anger the better of us -- that's the fault of most members here. I too may be guilty of that. Instead of ignoring others who keep flaming -- we want to get back at them. And that's just plain wrong. Remember -- two wrongs can't make one right. If you have problems with a particular person or group of people, you tell them directly through PM and not by posting offending remarks in the confession thread or whatsoever -- but here, that's not the case. People prefer to post flames until everything gets out of hand. How can we fix this then? Stop talking about it. If you don't know the real story it's best to keep your opinions to yourself. If you don't have anything good to say, just keep your mouth shut. If you want the story read this. I want to keep this as short as possible. There's no bias reactions here. Just facts. [spoiler] Let's start with Portuniecho. Portuniecho is Fis.Ms' boyfriend. One day they decided to keep their relationship in check and decided to "cool off". But after 1 or 2 days, Fis.Ms suddenly became Eejhay's girlfriend. Portuniecho's friends barge into the matter when they saw that tunie got hurt and posted harsh posts in the confession thread. It's [b]wrong[/b] to meddle in someone else's affair but sometimes when your friend gets hurt you can't just standby and watch. You just feel that you have to do something. And that's what Portuniecho's friends did. After letting out their emotions and hatred, the issue DIED. Eejhay and Portuniecho even patched things up and made up. In short they're okay. So everything was [b]peaceful[/b] again. [i]Well, it was suppose to be peaceful anyway[/i] [/spoiler] part 2 [spoiler] Let's term the two groups involve as "Group A" and "Group B". Well it was suppose to be peaceful but then a moderator let Group A flame and post challenges and debates in the confession thread -- they even coined the term "wakaka" to the moderators and to members they refer to as "wannabe moderators". At first Group B ignored them. But after a few days Group A repeated the "challenge" and keep on flaming. Group B reacted and asked them to stop because the issue died already. BUT the thing is, because Group B "reacted" with Group A's attention seeking remarks, the moderator told them that it's their fault for reacting. And so Group B got mad again at this moderator and the whole situation intensified. [/spoiler] part 3 [spoiler] everyone knows it, it has something to do with emokidd and eejhay. This is just between the TWO OF THEM. I have no right to say what's going on between them because it's their agenda. It has nothing to do with eGroups or whatever so if members would talk about it PLEASE DO NOT INVOLVE EVERYONE -- do not tag people from class-s or people from class-x. Not everyone is involve. This is a personal argument and we don't have anything to do with it so please learn to shut up especially if you don't know the whole story. [/spoiler] Personally, I don't want anything of this to happen. I don't want Sir Eejhay to leave because of all of this. This doesn't feel [i]right[/i] at all. Let's solve this thing. IF YOU'RE a member or a moderator who has problems with a group of people or a certain individual, PM them personally or contact their group leader/founder. TALK TO THEM DIRECTLY instead of talking behind their backs saying she's a bitch or he's acting like God. If you think they're/he's/she's mean, harsh and acts inappropriately - tell that to them/him/her. Mention names and not blind items like " when will THEY ever stop?". Because How would they know if you're not telling them DIRECTLY. If you DON't have anything to do about this matter --meaning you are [b]not[/b] involve in any of this. Keep quiet and pray. If you just want to barge in and flame -- keep quiet and pray BECAUSE your flaming and challenges WON't SOLVE ANYTHING. You're making it WORST

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@forsakendoll That is the thing. I even tried to beg harvey to stop it already. But won't even reply me back. He even announced that he's evil etc. And he even said he's not really involve, he was just enjoying to meddle in the issue. First of all, confidentialities deserve to be in private. I understand that you want them to be informed. If we could just understand this, none of this would ever happen. Both corners and sides of this situation went utterly wrong. While we are trying to resolve this, some other people involve is rejoicing as if they are waiting for the other ones to be exiled in this community.

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[b][quote]Reminder: I know this is very long but please give me, a 12 year old boy in search for peace within the forum, a chance. Please bear with me and take in what I have to say, please read and understand. All I want is to try to make a difference.[/quote] [quote]What I am about to post is neither a rant nor a rebuttal to any of the posts above. Rather an honest thoughts and feelings. None of these words have the purpose of a backstabbing anyone. I just want to point out my insights in what's happening here. I do not specify names but I think we all know who they are. It's hard to cover up something obvious and in front of you. If I may have hurt some feelings here then I sincerely apologize.[/quote] Forsakendoll is right. Making a fuss on a public thread does not make anything right. It will only make things worse and unresolved. I believe that a particular mod (Unspecified) is abusing his/her (Unspecified) powers as a mod. He/She is giving a bad example for us all. Even worse he/she posted it in a public thread. Could he/she have not done that in the backstage? This immediately made a controversy leading to other drastic occurrences. Concerned members started to make some statements about the case and he/she started to flame those who commented. That could not have happened if he/she had done that in the backstage. Both of them were mods so they could have settled things backstage,correct? As you can see also mods have made a mistake because they are only human. Those who discriminate the mods have no rights to comment about the mod's lacking or unavailability for the due time. We can neither do anything nor ignore because things like these can't just be buried. What I propose is we all forget on what has happened recently and things in the past. All the flames, spam and everything else. Let us all start a new friendstertalk where everyone can resolve all of their problems. Also, this is the internet for crying out loud. This is not our lives, rather this is our second lives that we need not to pay much physical, mental and moral attention. [quote=eehjhay]First of all, [i]confidentialities deserve to be in private[/i]. I understand that you want them to be informed. If we could just understand this, none of this would ever happen. Both corners and sides of this situation went utterly wrong.[/quote] Exactly. PMing someone is already a form of courtesy because that particular person needs no fuss in any thread rather, to keep things low and far from anyone who can state and comment negative words. Lastly, I just want to keep things easy and understandable I shall mince my words into this small sentence: [quote]Keep all confidential things private. All grudges aside. All hate, flame and spam forgotten. Unsaid feelings, said. Fights, forgiven and most important all wars brought to peace.[/quote] [/b]

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