[quote=forsakendoll]if that happens then the love he feels for his girlfriend will fade right ? because it is slowly replaced by the emotions he feels for his 'friend' ?[/quote] Yes..that love will fade in the process..but before that happens..you still love the person..and the time of choosing comes.. Once you've chose your gf..it means that you still love her..but if you choose the new comer..it means it's over for both of you..