i choose none.. i would'nt be happy for any of the two. love should be a give and take relationship.. if i'll go for the one who loves me im just fooling my self. and of course i am also fooling him. i'll be the taker but would i be happy? if i choose the i one i love im just hurting myself more for fooling my self that i cant have the love i want to have if that is the situation. i maybe the giver but does what i give would be enough? but love comes in different situation.. different scenario.. so you may never what things might happen