i would chose when i die.. since if loving a person is about the approval of your family and peers or the financial matters.. then i will choose not to love at all... God created our feelings for others and not created by our parents... we should not let our parents and our peers interfere with our private love including our lovelife... LOVELIFE is a very serious and sensitive matter especially to us... It is the way we express ourselves through actions and emotions which can only be seen by the one whom we love...