god! i've been through this situation and its so damn hard but what i did is walk straight to them and kiss my boyfriend in the lips then ask my boyfriend "is she your cuzn?" and added that i love the gift you brought me the other night... so? would you come by tonight, i'll make you dinner then before he could reply i said bye and see yah baby..and kiss him again... and the girl is so pale...(hahaha)