when i was young, i saw my dad's mark on his right hand.. a dot tattoo.. so i asked him if where did he get that.. he said, he's member of a frat when he was young.. i said.. you joined a fraternity?! oh dad you are so bad lolengs. he explained it to me.. for me, fraternities now are groups of people who want to become independent and i think not all fraternities can harm you.. but i do believe that other fraternities are bad i'm so afraid when i see pictures or videos of their hazing.. it's so gross but, i believe that for every fraternity, there is one common goal so it can help you for the betterment of your future!