in my friends' situation.. i have two friends and they love each other.. but the problem is my guy friend.. he is so called "torpe" and afraid that she will be rejected by my friend(the girl).. my guy friend doesnt follow our advice that he should make the first move coz our girl friend is showing that he has a great crush on the other guy in our school, which is actually a lie so that our guy friend will not notice that she loved him.. so time goes by.. still no first move is happening.. then we told our girl friend that maybe he should do the first move.. but the girl has the so called "pride" and she didn't want to make the first move.. so they end inlove.. wid somebody else.. so sad isn't? so maybe it's okay if the girl will make the first move.. but it depends upon the situation..