maybe ok or maybe not. maybe ok cause sum guys cudn't xpres der filings first or sum guys wer "torpe" maybe not cause sum people may do not understand.

Some opinions: Sometimes guys get offended when girls ask first a psychological aspect occurs, when this happens tha guy may think he is weak and out of style. Sometimes a woman making the 1st move is kinda cool in some aspects but I still prefer a guy making the 1st move because what if the guy didn't accept the offer of the woman, the women will be turned off and cry ( I hate see women crying ) kinda damages my gentlemen side A girl making the 1st move is kinda normal in this lifetime of our but, girls admit it! You prefer the guys to do the 1st move an bow to your feet

Last edited by Ephemeral (2007-05-09 11:54:08)

That was just a term of expression

Last edited by Ephemeral (2007-05-09 22:31:30)

yes its ok for some peple and the torpe guys but girls you gotta admit that filipinas are conservative not like western peple or rather the americans that does this a lot often...but i dont see nothing any wrong things about this

hell yea no problem

i think, guyz should realy do the first move,, lol,, xo wut if the guy is torpe,, the guy might think too high of himself if ull make the first move,,

guys are passive creatures most of the time. giving us hints will be the good thing to do.

so being the aggressive type makes you a gentleman you know, we guys will not approach you unless we're sure that you'll react positively. we study you first. we observe and scrutinize every detail of yours. so if you play around like you'll make pakipot and stuff, you might send the wrong message to us.

well, yah ofcourse. there`s no prob. on gerlx making the 1st move. atleast u`ve expressed yer feelings. even though it`s kinda "EMBARASSiNG". lol.

what you're talkin about girl doin first move is girl meets boy, girl likes boy, girl courts boy... well that really is sometimes freaky especially if the boy doesnt like to be courted, but generally its okey for us guys. my point is like this, girl meets boy, girl likes boy so does boy likes girl but still in the process of holding back because he's scared to be ignored, girl gives hints to boy, boy got the hints, finally boy courts girl... being gentleman is not even the issue there because they are still getting to know each other. that's the purpose of courting , to know more about your suitor. so it is not proper to make judgment beforehand.