what you're talkin about girl doin first move is girl meets boy, girl likes boy, girl courts boy... well that really is sometimes freaky especially if the boy doesnt like to be courted, but generally its okey for us guys. my point is like this, girl meets boy, girl likes boy so does boy likes girl but still in the process of holding back because he's scared to be ignored, girl gives hints to boy, boy got the hints, finally boy courts girl... being gentleman is not even the issue there because they are still getting to know each other. that's the purpose of courting , to know more about your suitor. so it is not proper to make judgment beforehand.