its not okay with me.. gurls can give a hint but not the "FIRST MOVE". well in my case., Courting a guy, no matter how much i like him.. is out of the question.. Im not makin the first move. Yeah ofcourse sometimes., i feel like doin it., i want to tell him how i really feel, i want to be brave but i choose not to.. i dont want to ruin everything., and i dont want "that guy" to think that i am a whore.. so yeah.. not okay.. a big NO NO. (its different with nix.. yah know what i mean )