i think it's okay to do the first move.. well i guess depending on how far u would go for that "first move" i mean girls admitting their feelings would be okay but us doing the courting, i don't think so. i used to think that boys [b]should always[/b] do the first move but unfortunately i wasn't able to follow my belief. however, of course i still prefer more if guys would do the first move. [align=center][quote]***i hope it would be fine to share*** tomorrow, it will be one month since i admitted i loved him. i can't keep it anymore knowing that i loved and lost before and i wasn't able to tell the "past" guy that i loved him. because of that, i don't want to make the same mistake and chose to tell this "new" guy that i had feelings for him through text message first (at night), then confronted him face to face (next day). (wow! i appear so courageous but believe me, it wasn't easy) [b]But![/b] i told him i wasn't expecting anything in return, i just wanted him to know what i feel because i don't want to make the same mistake again. (he knew all about the "past" guy) i thought we would be avoiding each other after that but we actually became closer... *****[/quote] [/align] see girls? it's not always that bad. it's just depends on how you do it. of course you shouldn't think that it will always be successful and live a happy ending. if you think you're not ready for the consequences, don't do it yet. guys, not all girls can be like me, so if you love somebody, don't wait for that girl to do the first move... do your thing, okay?