[quote=imdemoprincess]hey sis Lin? or sugarstyx. thanks for that,. yea i want to do the thing u said but if i do that i will be really worried about the guy because if i say no to him, he will cry for days, be absent for months thinking of the NO i said [if i will].. or may lead to death. haha im serious he is like emo haha..[/quote] We'll i'll tell you, you can't blame yourself for whatever decision he makes... He is your friend, ok it's nice that you look after him. I know it's easier said than done, but you need to have a "heart to heart" talk with him.. think about what you want & need to say to him.. not what he wants to hear.. because if he's your friend, he'll try to be open minded, see & do things for the better. Remember, if you get hurt, all of this will turn around & goes back to YOU... now you decide, do you think he'll be there? wouldn't it be awkward to be friends again? see right now you feel obligated to be there for him so he won't do any wrong moves for himself.. i think the best thing to do is be there for him as a good genuine friend that you are to him. then again, that's just another friendly-older-sis-advice