^ [b]nothing[/b] [b]proven[/b] that the [b]rumors[/b] are [b]true[/b]... [i]actually it happened to me long ago and when i saw them at our university lobby approaching at my direction i just stare at them while they pass at me and i did nothing... actually that person happen to greet me pa and honestly to make it even, i pretended that i don't even know him... [/i] well as you said earlier we are no longer committed as in "ex" so i have no rights or whatsoever business bothering with that person's life. he can do anything he wanted with or without considering me at all and obviously in your example story the man really did have no consideration at me at all for having that intimacy to others maybe he really wanted that girl or already in love with that girl... and even as you said that i still have feelings with that person should i feel sorry about myself? maybe not , as long as that person is not giving me any authority to be concern to him again... even without commitment... i cannot do anything on what he was doing... definitely in that situation, i will not allow myself to be in a scandalous scene or any move that will humiliate myself or other people... in short... i will just deadma... its his/their [b]choice[/b] after all... just wish them to be happy... and i will look someone that i can be with in good reasons to show that person that i moved on... -note- using terms, me, myself, i, just putting myself for example... offtopic [spoiler]does using condoms will 100% protect a person/woman of getting pregnant... is that 100% assurance that pregnancy will be prevented??? ---tsk! watta stupid question... [/spoiler]