New topic: [spoiler]For girls - What if you have an ex-bf. You two broke up 2 weeks ago. Of course you still love him. But no matter you do to have him back, there's always something that gets in your way. One day, he left to a vacation together with his friends (composed of girls and guys). You couldn't come of course for some reasons. After the event, his friends inform you that something intimate happened to him and one girl. Because you want to know the truth, you confronted the girl that they were talking about. She denied the accusations and you kinda believed on her explanation. After a day, you are walking on a street and see them together. [b]What would you do?[/b][/spoiler]

@eehjhay's topic: well, to see is to believe..once i heard some rumors or whatever it is..yupz,i've been trying to confront the people involved on it..once explanation is said,i dont belive on it right away..of course,i'll gather some more information before i totally fell or should i say believe on what they said..

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^ [b]nothing[/b] [b]proven[/b] that the [b]rumors[/b] are [b]true[/b]... [i]actually it happened to me long ago and when i saw them at our university lobby approaching at my direction i just stare at them while they pass at me and i did nothing... actually that person happen to greet me pa and honestly to make it even, i pretended that i don't even know him... [/i] well as you said earlier we are no longer committed as in "ex" so i have no rights or whatsoever business bothering with that person's life. he can do anything he wanted with or without considering me at all and obviously in your example story the man really did have no consideration at me at all for having that intimacy to others maybe he really wanted that girl or already in love with that girl... and even as you said that i still have feelings with that person should i feel sorry about myself? maybe not , as long as that person is not giving me any authority to be concern to him again... even without commitment... i cannot do anything on what he was doing... definitely in that situation, i will not allow myself to be in a scandalous scene or any move that will humiliate myself or other people... in short... i will just deadma... its his/their [b]choice[/b] after all... just wish them to be happy... and i will look someone that i can be with in good reasons to show that person that i moved on... -note- using terms, me, myself, i, just putting myself for example... offtopic [spoiler]does using condoms will 100% protect a person/woman of getting pregnant... is that 100% assurance that pregnancy will be prevented??? ---tsk! watta stupid question... [/spoiler]

^ hmmm.... [quote]That is the thing, he still shows concern to you. Sometimes, he still let you feel that you are special and loved.[/quote] well that is the man's problem... he should make things clear to both parties. its really hurting that girl why that man still make that girl feel that she's important to him then having issues to other woman. that guy should clear his mind who's more important to him... but as for the situation, if i was that girl, "no commitment-no responsibilities" right? yet that guy should not make her HOPE for something good from him. because that's really terrible. maybe that girl was just waiting for that guy on something and that guy just making her wait for nothing... clearing things will help. that is why if two person has mutual feelings, it must not end with that MU-MU. two people involve must step into another level. [spoiler]hay... kung kayo eh di kayo walang MU nu hindi ako naniniwala sa MU lang... ano yun open relationship? wala atang ganun eh... peace[/spoiler]

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