awts! I missed a lot of posts again... hmmm anyway I'll just catch up with the recent topic so perhaps I won't be able to answer other questions or problems around... @LDR: [spoiler]This one depends whether the relationship would last or not. Trust is the basis for me. Because no matter how you are far from each other we must always keep in touch and let them feel how we are close to them inspite of the very long distance diving us apart. As for me, I tried this LDRs but none of them lasted long because I meet new people and so as with my bf when we are in a LDR.. So we break up and stay with the people we newly met. I agree with some of our co-members here, the real presence of the other party still has a big difference. You would actually feel the essence of being together and enjoying the time spent with each other. [/spoiler] [quote=switpotato]my ldr is not actually deserve to be called ldri rather call our wdr nyahaha... as in wrong distance relationship...[/quote] ^ ahaha wow ate monix... i remember the post you had on the previous topics.. and also with the marriage and divorce. Marriage is useless if there is a divorce. If there is a divorce, i agree, it's just like a bf-gf relationship and all.

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LDR [quote=eehjhay]You have to be patient, capable of balancing or limiting your affections and feelings for your partner, and also don't give much priority to your partner. You need to be busy also for some times either to your work, your study, or your family. Always think that you're not just experiencing those, but also you are learning how to improve yourself to deal with those kinds of situations.[/quote] [spoiler]your really right sir ej...i just wish i realize this sooner... 2 yrs were so close with my ex, we even go to the same school and live in the same subdivision then 4 yrs LDR it's nice and exciting coz 1's a month he would go to cebu to be with me but when i got back home our relationship gets shaky coz in the last ears of our LDR he found someone new without even telling me that he fall in love with someone else... and he let me find it out on my own...it was so stupid of me for trusting me![/spoiler] [quote=switpotato]regarding separation... hmmmm... i dont believe in marriage ... thats why i dont know wer to side... all i know if marriage end up in dvorce wat more an ordinary girl boi relationship... again non last forever.. sooner or later u will be ditch lol.. bad chita...[/quote] i dont believe in marriage too coz nothing last forever right? feelings change! [quote=`mizeL]uhm. at this moment i'm not again ready for commitment or to be in love because as far as i'm aware, i'm still starting to love myself yet before i love others. errrr.[/quote] im still in recovering state too hehehe loving and healing myself for the pain my ex inflicts on me or maybe the pain i inflict to myself....

[quote=fis.ms]Marriage: My opinion is still pretty blurry on this topic So I'll just keep my mouth shut for now. [/quote] hahaha why? it's alright whatever you'd answer. @marriage No comment yet too. Lol.

I told you already. But you ignored what I said. You said that you understood me, but then why you're hurt like that? I told you to gather as much strength and courage as you can. Tsk tsk.. You're a grown up now, think why she broke up with you. And it's not just because of you, it's because of other things, (or other person).

Ngek. Sorry if I offended you. It's just that we're like affected in your situation since you laid your feelings and thoughts in this group. Of course there are different perspective through your situation. There are nice words to hear, and there are harsh comments as well. If I was harsh, I apologize. I said before that I won't give any comments about your situation, but I forgot about it when you quote my post. Anyway I know what you feel right now. I've been there sooo many times already. I even attempt to kill myself. So now, it affects how I see other people's problems about love. Again, I apologize if I am offensive.

[quote=eehjhay]hahaha why? it's alright whatever you'd answer. @marriage No comment yet too. Lol.[/quote] Ok ok. hmm. I actually plan on living in with my partner just to see how it'll be like, if I can live with [i]his[/i] manner in one house and to let him have a preview of how it'll be living with [b]me[/b] [sup]*[i]hell[/i]*[/sup] hahahah ... then I'll see after that if I still need some paper to prove that our relationship is serious or not. :idea: One big factor with my decision here would be my parents, they're strongly against live-in partners... Hope they listen before they react

woah i missed dthis forum huh... the first two was so sweet huh... maybe they have plans of marrying each other soon... wow,dont forget to invite me. first of all i feel sorry for what happened to jesse. and sir ej kinda make him feel bad huh... very funny situation. nwei about the issue i have opened, marriage/separation i would like to open up something in my case. and also to answer ms. rose question on who is that new man actually old/new guy [spoiler]i sometime gets in mind that i only got married because i got pregnant haha "disgrasyada" nwei whenever we had quarrels it always come to me that i only marry the guy because of our kid. we always comes into quarrel everyday or i say 3x a week mostly when we are together in one place, and even we are out of the hause some like family gimik, we cant avoid being pissed by each other. whatta terrible life living with the person who you can't avoid because of marriage. sometime in our relationship i happen to fall out of love i guess because in a long period of time that we are together i admit that i learn to love him and the fact that he was the father of my kid then.i met a guy, but i never expected this guy to replace my partne's position. at first i was like hesitant of having any relationship with him but as time passes, i happen to fall for him to the extent of having an affair with that guy, and happen that my partner had found out about it.the situation was so critical to the point that i gave up everything i believe i had because of that guy, but with no reason, i fail to pursue a relationship for that guy maybe because i and he realize things in our life and situation, after fixing some issues with my partner we happen to still live together but in a horrible relation as if we never changed. quarrels and everyhting gone into next level of hurting each other more and even to the point that he actually hit me physically. i totally lost my respect to hima and i think him also to me now that he can do anything he wanted.i was always thinking about marriage, the bind that bringing us to be together, we only had papers now.see what was the effect of two people who happen to get married in a wrong time and with maybe wrong person. because of the unstopable quarrels and isues between me and my partner the long lost love with the guy i get involved with before was now revived. but with considerations with that person that i think im starting to love again, i was thinking of his sake first. that fact that he was offering things that i never expected he would think of. i dont want to be unfair with him. if i accept his marriage proposals and a happy and peaceful life with him, i would just give him so much trouble. how can i marry him if im already married? i know he knows how much i love him that of all i have given before and until now if he knows that im dying to be with him. but because i was demanding something that he can't give and because of that love i have its more better for us to live in separate ways. accepting facts that impossible things only happens in fairy tale. now im going to escape from all of my sufferings and all the things and person that makes me happy. because of that darn marriage. [/spoiler] i want to share in an issue of abortion. i dont have no idea if anyone here knows the name of med "sytotec"/ "sycotec" actually i have taken those meds since last thursday. 2tabs for oral and 1 inserted in the v. i have no idea if im pregnant already or not, but i guess im going to be because of unsafe sex i didnt take a test bcoz im afraid to find out about what im expecting. two days to go and im done with that remedy. so what? did i practice abortion already, as i ve said before, i will not because i still have my righteous thiking yet to think that getting pregant will give me a good life with my partner? another reason i will be leaving the country tonight. i dont wanna mess with my relative who had helped me to get out of my missery. so... did i make the right decision then? am i out of my righteous thinking?

@topic [spoiler]i agree wif living together first before getting married. but i dont want to have a child when im in live-in status.coz i dont want my child to suffer the consequences of our mistakes and responsibilities of getting married[/spoiler]

^ exactly.we have to think carefully in making our decisions. [spoiler]laging nsa huli pagsisisi [/spoiler]

howa......... i missed many topics here... i just read this last page..coz i felt a lil bit confused the problem is, i dont know what makes me confuse:lol: [scroll]just an Intermezzo [/scroll] [b]@topic:[/b] about marriage, uhm... i think,,it was a hard decission. and... uhm... aa... now i know what confusing me up. i never done it before.. [s]or maybe im drunk right now[/s]