LDR [quote=eehjhay]You have to be patient, capable of balancing or limiting your affections and feelings for your partner, and also don't give much priority to your partner. You need to be busy also for some times either to your work, your study, or your family. Always think that you're not just experiencing those, but also you are learning how to improve yourself to deal with those kinds of situations.[/quote] [spoiler]your really right sir ej...i just wish i realize this sooner... 2 yrs were so close with my ex, we even go to the same school and live in the same subdivision then 4 yrs LDR it's nice and exciting coz 1's a month he would go to cebu to be with me but when i got back home our relationship gets shaky coz in the last ears of our LDR he found someone new without even telling me that he fall in love with someone else... and he let me find it out on my own...it was so stupid of me for trusting me![/spoiler] [quote=switpotato]regarding separation... hmmmm... i dont believe in marriage ... thats why i dont know wer to side... all i know if marriage end up in dvorce wat more an ordinary girl boi relationship... again non last forever.. sooner or later u will be ditch lol.. bad chita...[/quote] i dont believe in marriage too coz nothing last forever right? feelings change! [quote=`mizeL]uhm. at this moment i'm not again ready for commitment or to be in love because as far as i'm aware, i'm still starting to love myself yet before i love others. errrr.[/quote] im still in recovering state too hehehe loving and healing myself for the pain my ex inflicts on me or maybe the pain i inflict to myself....