my problem is: about love life..hahaha... i don't know how to say to "my friend" who have (deep) feelings for me(he said) that he don't have chance for his feelings because all i can offer to him is friendship. i, now have a boyfriend and still don't know how to tell to him.. please help me.. i don't want to hurt him since he is my friend... note: im not sure if i can reply immediately since i'll be busy but i'll try... that's all.. thnx in advance!!!!

hmmm of course he'll understand you

[b] @ bianx_06:[/b] well, tnx sis for the advice..i'll wud try to tell him d truth in a very nice way i know... and i hope he wud understand me... i also hope that he wud still be my friend.... >> why do u nid 2 forget him??? [b]takeouttt:[/b] yea....i hope he'll understand me.... [b]@TOPIC:[/b] well, until now this is still my problem...ehehehe.. thnx 4 those hu replied....

Last edited by kia_bunso28 (2008-03-28 05:32:48)

[b]cklahrckiey[/b] There's no rule saying a ghetto can't love an emo. Just like the song of avril goes.. He was a punk, she did ballet. What more can i say? Go for it. [b]Lryuzaki28[/b] Don't be a martyr, sometimes it's better to be wise.

My brother is my main prob ryt now... he's making the house messy!

[quote=lucknskill]No, this ain't a fight thread. Just something i came up with To prevent making too much threads. It's not really compulsory but post your share of problems here.. 'bout life, love, society, or your problems with other ftalk members.. ..And we will try to help as much as we can. Dont be shy, Ftalk is here for you [/quote] well, it's about my family.. i don't know if i'm being an ass or something. here's the deal. they do know that i'm paid well for my present job. they were like acting "puss-in-boots" - begging for sympathy over their monetary problems so i would let them borrow. but when they do have their money, they forget to pay me. and what really pisses me off is they boast about their adventures (like shopping, out of town trips, food trips).. man.. i sacrifice my own shopping and gimmicks while they do that.. i'm just out of patience. i just don't want blow this out one time big time and ruin our relationship, but how can i tell them that they have to cut short on their hedonistic indulgences so they still have bread for more important things..and let me have fun with my hard earned money. i'm just lucky i have understanding friends who after all the years i've never been to our group gimmicks are still my friends..

[quote=f3ndi]well, it's about my family.. i don't know if i'm being an ass or something. here's the deal. they do know that i'm paid well for my present job. they were like acting "puss-in-boots" - begging for sympathy over their monetary problems so i would let them borrow. but when they do have their money, they forget to pay me. and what really pisses me off is they boast about their adventures (like shopping, out of town trips, food trips).. man.. i sacrifice my own shopping and gimmicks while they do that.. i'm just out of patience. i just don't want blow this out one time big time and ruin our relationship, but how can i tell them that they have to cut short on their hedonistic indulgences so they still have bread for more important things..and let me have fun with my hard earned money. i'm just lucky i have understanding friends who after all the years i've never been to our group gimmicks are still my friends..[/quote] Man, i always get in that situation too when i have money. It's really hard to fend off your family sometimes but i really got fed up one time that i ignored their needs in times of emergency. They end up paying me after they worked hard for some money later on. The moral of the lesson is, be strict sometimes, it's really important to make contracts and things like that even if they are your family. Make sure they are responsible enough to pay it at a given deadline. Reward yourself too man, i believe you are a good person but give time for yourself.

where can i find the linker thats my problem!

problem??how many times you've heard this from your parents??? [b][color=#660099]"you're a disgrace to this family"[/b][/color] i've heard it many times...come to think i don't even know what i did, for them to shout that in my face...

Last edited by aloneforever (2008-04-06 14:30:39)

my problem is.. im grounded for 1 month..