woohhooo0... nice thread!!! i dont have any problems now!! good luck!

I Just saw this thread. WOW XD Here's my share.... My boyfriend cheated on me and he did "SOMETHING"(you know...) with my friend(used to be now) and I don't know if I could still trust him. Help?

[quote=tuttifruitty]I Just saw this thread. WOW XD Here's my share.... My boyfriend cheated on me and he did "SOMETHING"(you know...) with my friend(used to be now) and I don't know if I could still trust him. Help? [/quote] Sis that kind of problem dont need a deep and complicated answer .. [b]are you sure HE DID that damn thing w/ur friend?[/b] ..if thats the case.. forgive him but i advice you not to put your trust again..why? coz he already did it, theres a possibility that He might do that again..so y SUCKrifice? ...move on girl ....i think ur a lil bit young for this problem ,.move on and get ur life are u FILIPINA?... try to read this song of PNE [spoiler][i]Choco Latte Parokya Ni Edgar Di ba't sinabi mo sa kin dati na Mahirap kumain ng tsokolatteng Natunaw at parang wala nang korte Kadiri nang kainin, mukha ng tae Ewan ko ba kung bakit Mahirap ibalik Sa original na hugis Pag nalusaw na sa init. Parang tiwala pag nasira na Mahirap nang ayusin pa Di kayang ipagdikit ang tiwala Pag napunit! Parang nangyari kailan lang... Meron akong nakita'y nakatagong Regalo sa likod ng auto mo! Hugis puso na kahon at may red na Ribbon.(mamahaling tobleron) At nung aking tingnan para sa yo Mula kay christian, agad kong Binuksan, chocolate ang laman. At di ko malaman kung ba't kailangan Itago sa akin ang katotohanan Ang dami-dami mo palang tsokolate Hindi ka man lamang nagsasalita-e Ewan ko ba kung bakit Hindi ko napigilan Ang regalo mo'y naubos ko nang Di ko nalalaman! Parang tiwala pag naubos na! Bigla bilaan talaga! Mahirap nang makita Kapag minsa'y nawala... At kahit na pilitin, di mo Na mapapalitan Kahit hanap-hanapin, Di mo na mababalikan Kahit sabihin natin Na ika'y napagbigyan, Wag na lang. Ewan ko ba kung bakit Mahirap tanggalin ang tsokolate Pag natunaw at kumapit na sa ngipin! Parang tiwala pag namantsahan na! Mahirap nang linisin pa, At kayang di burahin Kahit na anong gawin! parang tiwala! [/i][/spoiler] @T [spoiler]Im loving someone here...but the problem is, He's a highness and Im just a nobody in addition to that.. Im 21 while HE is soo young .... [i]and i have a bf, He's in Manila[/i] I dont want to make actions related w/ cheating but i cant help myself in resisting his charm... owmaygaahd my heart beats as if theres no tomorrow whenever i see his name ONLINE .. [i]Now Im really confused , so many conflicts although i already knew that this will be so impossible [/i][/spoiler]

Last edited by HiLyNkAwAii (2008-04-17 04:49:07)

Mee I have a huge one but I do believe no one can help me here. I dunno what to do perhaps I believe with the power of miracle

^^ [b]Definetly[/b] thats what im talking about.. open the spoiler [spoiler] Sis look, ur just 16 yet ur taking things seriously as this? i guess ur bf is also at ur age Sis, know what? your not yet even arriving on the half of your life ur still younger than 18..lol sis ko, ur not yet an adult either...u dont deserve a guy like him... Why? coz at that very young age, He already cheated how much more in the future?.. expect that he'll do that again. Although he already admitted it, granted fine... but wats the sense of that?..a big lol sis... are u sure u can still give him 100% of ur trust knowing that he didnt gave his 100% LOYALTY to you? ... [b]LOVE, TRUST, RESPECT, LOYALTY and PRAYER[/b] thats the things every couple must have... well, BASED ON MY VIEW sis ko [i]i just wanna share it to you..coz it really works believe me [/i] ..if one is missing hmmm well i cant tell.. anywoot its still your decision, thats ur life..ur own life.. ur still young i advice you to do ur best for ur best got me?[/spoiler] err.. long post [b]But first and foremost.. avoid double posting my sis [/b] @T if theres anyone who can help me on my problem above...PM me

Last edited by HiLyNkAwAii (2008-04-17 10:22:24)

huhuh help me plz... i wrote this @ my blog... my bf, he's been lying to me for bout 4 months... he didnt tell me that he has a family... a wyf, and 2 daughters... huhuhuhu open the spoiler to view the letter i sent him... [align=center][spoiler] "huhuhu it hurts me so much... aq nlng ang magpaparaya dahil alam q na kahit kelan ay d magiging maaus ang buhay namin kung maging kami man... huhuhu help me... huhuhu... bebe , baka my masabi aq sau na labag sa loob q... ayaw qng iwan ka pw0 nagmakaawa c kesa sakin... sabi nia kung kailangan lumuhod p xa gagawin nia, at isa pa nasabi rin ng mama mo skin n kahit kelan, d nia aq matatanggap... kaya pinasya q na magparaya be, masakit at labag man sa loob ko, kaya q un gawin para wla na aqng ibang tao pang masaktan... salamat sa lahat be... from now on, we cant see each other na... im crying my heart out wyl typing this mesej... at 1st d q tlga kaya, kaso ok lng n mamatay aq kesa makapatay aq... be my pamilya ka na... luv ur fam... specially kesa... she luvs u so much... d q kayag mawala ka be.... nag duha duha n gni q if isend p nq ni sa imoh...pwo i want this to stop na... if d ka tlga masaya ky kesa, maghihintay aq, pwo kausapin mo c kesa, dont play safe be, i know wat ur saying and doing sa bahay nio... nag uusap kami ni kesa,cnasabi nia sakin lahat... i know ur still lying to me, sabi ni mama be if kaya p b daw kita tanggapin sa kabila ng panloloko at patuloy n panloloko mo sakin, sabi q kay mama "I DONT CARE IF LOKOHIN MAN NIA AQ< MAHAL Q XA" muntik n nga aq masaktan ni mama ne eh, kaso alam nia n mahal tlga kita, sabi nia lng be n mas makakabuti sa lahat na lumayo n tau sa isa't isa... en i agree wid dat even though masasaktan ako, i dont care, kc be, maiisip mo rin pagdating ng panahon nah, hindi mo ko mahal, pag pinakikinggan q ung cd n binigay mo sakin be, umiiyak aq, aq lng mag isa, kc ayaw q makipag usap sa iba... ayaw q mag labas ng sakit ng loob, kc baka pag ginawa q un, baka d n q tumigil pah... sa twing magkasama tau, parang ayaw n kitang pakawalan... kung pde nga lng na kidnapin kita gagawin q, naaawa lng tlga aq ky kesa at sa mga anak moh, sana maintindihan moh... but dont ever think nah d kita mahal dahil kahit kelan d ka mawawala sa puso q be, kahit kelan... maghihintay aq sau be, i will only stop waiting if and only if napatunayan q n ok n kau ng fam mo at ni kesa, and that's what i wish for... kc nsasaktan lng aq lalo eh... be i want to hug u, to kiss u, to be with u always, pwo d pde eh... sana be mapag isip2 mo to, as in ayaw q mawala ka pwo d n tlga tau pdeng magkita, i know na galit sakin ang mom mo, ang dad mo at kung cno2 pang nakaka alam ng kwento natin, pwo ayaw q masira ang buhay nio... lalo n ng mga anak moh... i think be, eto n ang last nating pagkikita... i can get over this... I WISH... i lab u bebe... xobra... xobra xobra na kaya qng magparaya... if wer meant for each other, love will find its ways... at the ryt tym... but now, its obviously not d ryt tym... mas takot kang mawala c kesa sau kesa sakin be, i know... kaya she deserves you more dan i do... i lab u be... dont forget dat... i love you, i loved you and i will always love you... bye be... MaNeL... i lab u bebe... i dont know i can get over you... huhuhu... if wer for each other... i will w8 for you..." [/spoiler][/align] huhuhu i love him so much that i can even kill myself... this hurt is killing me, i cant talk to any1 coz i know even if they listen, they would think im crazy, he was my first luv en i think my last... do i deserve this? i cant help myself to cry... it was april 14 wen i knew the truth... his wyf and mother came to our house, i didnt know whats going on, until his wyf cried infront of me... she begged for me to give my bf bak... i cant... i dont want to but i have to... huhuhuhu help me god.... huhuhuh...

Last edited by `Ms. ShY` (2008-04-17 19:29:56)

[quote=`Ms. ShY`]huhuh help me plz... i wrote this @ my blog... my bf, he's been lying to me for bout 4 months... he didnt tell me that he has a family... a wyf, and 2 daughters... huhuhuhu [b]"huhuhu it hurts me so much... aq nlng ang magpaparaya dahil alam q na kahit kelan ay d magiging maaus ang buhay namin kung maging kami man... huhuhu help me... huhuhu... i lab u bebe... i dont know i can get over you... huhuhu... if wer for each other... i will w8 for you..." huhuhu i love him so much that i can even kill myself... this hurt is killing me, i cant talk to any1 coz i know even if they listen, they would think im crazy, he was my first luv en i think my last... do i deserve this? i cant help myself to cry... it was april 14 wen i knew the truth... his wyf and mother came to our house, i didnt know whats going on, until his wyf cried infront of me... she begged for me to give my bf bak... i cant... i dont want to but i have to... huhuhuhu help me god.... huhuhuh... [/b][/quote] ^^^ Shy sis, u already have the answers on ur problem..all u have to do is to make it real..i mean do what do u think is right... [quote][b]i lab u bebe... i dont know i can get over you... huhuhu... if wer for each other... i will w8 for you...[/b][/quote] OPEN THE SPOILER [spoiler] you dont have to wait for him...because you cannot be with each other, believe me..not unless he'll file an annulment case between them and make all the things be settled..but how about the responsibility on his kids? are you sure ur ready for this? lol sis WAKE UP!,.. Can u imagine ur life sharing with his kids and if ever w/ ur kids too? this isnt only in sharing a home but im also talking about the time, the love, the responsibility and HIS SALARY lol in this kind of crisis we're experiencing now i think this is not the right time to be martyr... I understand that YOU LOVE HIM..more than ur life i guess but how about ur own life?... He has a family, a wife and kids..He did it to them knowing that theres already something binded them together..how much more for you?, ur not legal remember that (sorry for being so direct sis),. I always say...Move on and get a life ,losing him isnt the end of ur world..u may be thinking of that ayt now but believe it or not..its just for NOW,. later on ull forget about him. He cheated cant you see sis? He make a fool out of you so y SUFFER? aber?... I just wanna share my advices for you sis... take it nicely or not...i cant do anything with that.. If you continue this, you will never be happy in the future.. Someone is BETTER than him, just wait... [i]Wag ng dagdagan ng pagkakamali ang ginawa niyang pagkakamali [/i][/spoiler] -ate Hy here @T [spoiler].... same problem on my prev post but in addition to those ,. Im having a very hard time to diet cant help?..then ignore [/spoiler]

Last edited by HiLyNkAwAii (2008-04-17 23:37:41)

i just cant sleep!!! do you have some techniques on how to sleep?

^ sis shy ur welcome but lol.. so u mean they are only living in? anywoot dear sis cheer up! ,. Thank God coz He let you know all these earlier. if that day comes (proposing) ...He must be be very sure that his obligation to his children arent being set aside isnt it?... Sis kew Im really happy for you... move on and get a BETTER life on you own have u seen this thread? [url]http://theftalk.com/t27789-tell-your-problem-icekandi%3Cthe-mod%3E-will-help-you...html[/url] for serious cases ,.more clear answers for complicated cases... according to them but Ate hy will always be here lil sis

Last edited by HiLyNkAwAii (2008-04-19 11:19:07)

[quote=HiLyNkAwAii]^ sis shy ur welcome but lol.. so u mean they are only living in? anywoot dear sis cheer up! ,. Thank God coz He let you know all these earlier. if that day comes (proposing) ...He must be be very sure that his obligation to his children arent being set aside isnt it?... Sis kew Im really happy for you... move on and get a BETTER life on you own have u seen this thread? [url]http://theftalk.com/t27789-tell-your-problem-icekandi%3Cthe-mod%3E-will-help-you...html[/url] for serious cases ,.more clear answers for complicated cases... according to them but Ate hy will always be here lil sis [/quote] ahehehe ate hy... yup ur ryt... dey are just wat we call "[b]live-in[/b]" for the sake of der kids .. u know we just saw each other last nyt, even though im not allowed to, but i cant help it...im so [b]D**N[/b] inlove with him, i told him that wen the day([b]proposing[/b]) comes, he must be sure that he'll do anything and evrything to let his daughters understand him en i want his children to know and be close to me, coz i lyk kids u know, ahehehe... i wish he do propose to me but then i wish he stays with his family... ouch!!! im so "[b]nakakalito[/b]" ahehehe but then i want him so bad... he typed something @ my cp, it was "[b]plz tel me ur just lying[/b](that i want him to go away and be with his family) [b]and just doing this for something...[/b]" and i told him last nyt that "[b]yes... im just lying and im doing this for d sake of something... but i want you to know that i'll be here wen the ryt tym comes... i'll be w8ing for you...[/b]" then he cried and told me [b]he luvs me[/b]... and willing to loose everything but not [b]ME[/b] ehehehe i cried too u know coz now i know that even if i takes [b]forever[/b], i know [b]he'll be back for me[/b]... thnx again ate hy... but still the [b]hurt of letting him go is still here[/b]...

Last edited by `Ms. ShY` (2008-04-20 09:27:40)