I just saw this thread. Hurray.
I'm a noob when it comes to love-life issues so I'mconfused about myself. (I think this will turn out to be quite a confession too. it's long)
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There's this guy who started to like me since last June 2006. After he admitted that he had a crush on me I began to feel awkward around him, which I always tend to do whenever I get...uh.."related" or something with guys.
Then...in the middle of that schoolyear he said ILY (still via sms).
I didn't really believe him because I thought it was only infatuation, but he continued to say that to me via sms for a couple of times. I began to have a slight crush on him then.
But my friend, who was his classmate, told me that he's a bit [i]presko[/i] or overconfident sometimes. And my guy friend doesn't seem to approve of him either. I valued my friends' opinions and decided to just stay back again. But he really just seems to be so kind and friendly to me and other people, and he's quite a gentleman too. He even gave me a birthday gift and everything.
But then he's a girl magnet, and he knows a lot of girls. Some say he's the [i]babaero[/i] type or something.
But I just got surprised when he introduced several girls via sms and YM to me and they knew all about him crushing on me. I dunno what to think. I thought he was flirting with them or something.
This year he became our classmate and we got closer. He's just really nice. But he's still the wooo-i-love-meeting-pretty-girls type of guy but he's still crushing on me and, wth, it seems that EVERYONE knows about it, even students I don't even know.
And...I dunno. Sometimes I dislike him, especially when he takes advantage of one of my girl classmate's habit. That girl loves to tickle boys, chase them, fiddle with them like little kids, etc. In our class family they're brother and sister and I saw them chasing a lot, tickling, blah blah blah and I felt a bit jealous.
But he's still very loyal to me...? His friends confirmed that and all. My close friends also agreed he's very loyal even now, despite the fact that he's met a lot of girls and a lot of girls are after him (he's never had a GF before). Recently he just asked if he could court (waw) and I'm still thinking. >_< Haha, I dun even know if I'm really ready for it or what. But a part of me wants to answer him too.
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HMMMMMMM!!!! Long story huh?! Sorry but I'm just so confused, I'm NOT demanding for advice.
Damn this problem lasted for almost two years already.
Last edited by joebz (2008-04-16 08:44:34)