My problem now is,my crush is 2 years older than me,and he has this bestfriend which is my enemy.my crush and i are friends.how can i tell him that his bestfriend is my enemy?

^faelnar84 I think you should talk to him face to face.. then tell him the truth... I know.. he can understand... why u and his friend are enemy... and maybe when u tell to him that thing.. he will look for ways so that u and his friends will be friends....

^ i have a similar prob with u ate shika. but the difference is i'm still a student and i'm not there abroad. so, in the mean time i'll suffer this life living in our hell house. i had a talk with my friend just last night (while we were having our on call graveyard shift), her girl cousin now living in LA was still a nursing student but a blacksheep in the family. if that daughter(my friend's cousing) is having a fight with her mom, the girl would just get out of the house and live with her boyfriend for like 1 year without talking to her mom because every time she comes back to their house, a fight would always occur between them. hmmm. i mean, i can't help with your prob right now but i'm just sharing this to you. hahaha. i'm not suggesting either. you're on your own ate.

my problem is so no-brainer,but still so hard to solve..how do u dump a person u loved before and suddenly u fall out of love, without hurting their feelings coz u know ul be hurt too...confusing??? yup thats wat i am today..totally confused.(sigh) [spoiler][color=red][b]hi bianx_o6..we meet again [/b][/color][/spoiler]

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nice thread! well,my problem is that my parents are scolding me for being not being an honor student.since kinder until 1st yr.hs,i'm part of the top 10 but on 2nd yr.,i've been a procrastinator,i pass projects late.come to school late and worst is that i don't study that much.when my parents knew that i'm not honor anymore,they asked me on what's the problem with me.they are giving me anything that i need,last school year,my Papa bought me my own pc so that i can research well, but i did not research,etc. im getting busy doing photo edits and joining online communities..but the MAIN problem is that i have a boyfriend...i can't focus on my studies because of him.. should i break up with him?

[quote=daixee mae]nice thread! well,my problem is that my parents are scolding me for being not being an honor student.since kinder until 1st yr.hs,i'm part of the top 10 but on 2nd yr.,i've been a procrastinator,i pass projects late.come to school late and worst is that i don't study that much.when my parents knew that i'm not honor anymore,they asked me on what's the problem with me.they are giving me anything that i need,last school year,my Papa bought me my own pc so that i can research well, but i did not research,etc. im getting busy doing photo edits and joining online communities..but the MAIN problem is that i have a boyfriend...i can't focus on my studies because of him.. should i break up with him?[/quote] If you really love your BF then don't dump him sis, consider him instead as a source of inspiration to get you motivated in your studies and goals in life..If he is the type of BF who supports you on your goals and encourages you to do what's needed to be done in life then keep that relationship. If he's the type who just wants to spend time with you 24/7 and not caring whether it would affect your studies or not then it's time to dump him I don't thnik your bf is the root cause on not achieving or doing well on your studies lately..i guess it's the habit on diverting your attention on engaging in online activities like photo editing and joining forums..i know it's really addicting but it's not too late to change..Just cut out the habit of procrastinating and start to prioritize things that would help you attain your goals and achieve well in school If you still wanna do all those online activities and keep your relationship.. then you should know on how to balance all of them.. like focus more on school on weekdays and go online on weekends..spare some time with your bf..communication is really important too studies in really important and you're lucky enough having the support of your parents, sustaining you on everything you need to do well in school...not everyone has that opportunity. Well just like your caption " Dare to be different' in a positive way...don't consider school as something you just need to accomplish just for the sake of finishing it.. online activities is just a temporary thing..Think about the future..only education can help you pursue your dreams in life.. [quote=unique_user]my problem is so no-brainer,but still so hard to solve..how do u dump a person u loved before and suddenly u fall out of love, without hurting their feelings coz u know ul be hurt too...confusing??? yup thats wat i am today..totally confused.(sigh)[/quote] The only way is to confront that person as soon as possible (once you'd have that "i don't love him anymore feeling) and tell the truth..simply be honest to that person.. People really do end up getting hurt but confronting over the issue is far better than having arguments later on and have that feeling on just forcing yourself to stay in the relationship for the sake of avoiding on hurting that person..open up on everything, cite your concerns and express freely how you feel about the relationship...later on that person would understand..though it may hurt..but time does heal..

i also have a problem with my girl.. her parents dont like me.. what should i do.?

yes i have a problem that i've been dealing with for months since i get this prob i can't make my life peaceful anymore... long ago, i fall for a person that is not my partner and i happen to cheat my partner because of that person. and all of a sudden for no reason that love was lost and we fail to pursue the realtionship so i came back to my partner that i cheated who is actually fighting for me from the start. after long period of being together our realtionship became hell due to more fights and arguments about the past -- about what i did to him, about the cheating thing that i did to him. everytime we had a fight he mention the guys name to me and the things i did to him and i got pissed off.. always. i can't imagine that after all of my efforts of bringing back the sweet relationship that i destroyed, he still can't move on. he always mention that guys name to our arguments... wtf! i cant bear with those situations that always ends to me leaving him, but fail coz he always do things that will avoid me from leaving. i believe that if we get separated things will be more better but he dont want me to leave. i cant take those arguments and fights anymore. there are times that i hurt myself physically instead because of deppression and stress in our relationship. to be honest. last night i cought him chatting, i just asked him about it and he became so sarcastic on defending himself and turned into bringing my past with that guy i get involved with and because of too much anger i happen to hit the wall with my bear hands. i almost break my whrist. and got so many bruises all over my hands and palm for what ive done... but after that, it was useless because im still living with the same person... im getting tired of this... what will i do? i feel like im a prisoner, i want to be free, from pain-physically and emotionally... i can live without him but he can't. he wont allow me to leave. what will i do now?

^ Sorry but don't know anything about technology. -- [b]TOPIC[/b] I will start doing suicide one day. Yes! Be happy! This stupid f*cking Uma is starting a suicide Why? The reasons are of the following:- [spoiler]1) Life is starting to get boring. 2) People who were once my friends are starting to ignore me headlessly. 3) My bf won't talk to me because i'm a fan of a celebrity 4) I don't have anything to do during summer.... haizz.... 5) My bestfriends aren't at home mostly. Ughh... 6) People treat my like shit 7) I have to destiny in my life....Tsk... [/spoiler] And oh yes! Ignore this! Ignore it! C'mon everybody, ignore my post! You will understand how I feel if you're in my place.

^ thank you for the sympathy... and i must take your advice. it was so tiring for me and that man to continue our life together... my problem now is i was thinking of pursuing my relationship with my friend... yet he seemed so playful and he often make friends and i get jealous specially when he was telling me stories about fling thing im hurt of course im not "bato" duh! that friend of mine happen to be the reason why my relationship with my present partner is not in good terms anymore. i happen to find it hard to sleep last night thinking about him and im so confused with what to do. i still feel the comfort from him yet i can see that he was having a very fun time of having his so called "close friend". yesterday we argued about this things and it end up on me not getting into serious relationship with him but i doubt it was more like i want to be with him, yet he made me decide easily. he's also in his present relationship so what can we do about it?