^ it really pays off to stick to one, but not giving everything. be faithful...faith. -- i got a problem, i got this very close gurl friend in school since last year. And i soooo much like her. I am so in the mood to confess to her but.. I know that when a guy confesses to her, she will get uneasy around him and starts to be afraid of him..and might put malice on his good deeds for her. If you're a gurl with that kind of attitude and a philosophy that ignores guys confessions (and gets uneasy easily).. what would be the proper way to tell it to you, in a way that we'd still be like friends..