[b][quote][quote=lucknskill]^ it really pays off to stick to one, but not giving everything. be faithful...faith. -- i got a problem, i got this very close gurl friend in school since last year. And i soooo much like her. I am so in the mood to confess to her but.. I know that when a guy confesses to her, she will get uneasy around him and starts to be afraid of him..and might put malice on his good deeds for her. If you're a gurl with that kind of attitude and a philosophy that ignores guys confessions (and gets uneasy easily).. what would be the proper way to tell it to you, in a way that we'd still be like friends.. [/quote] hmm.. maybe you should be thinking it over first before confessing to the girl that you like her.. what's more important to you, friendship or love?.. if you chose love, then you must face the consequences.. so what if she avoids you.. if you really like her, then prove it.. if you really love a girl, you can do everything and anything just for her.. you know, actions speaks louder than words for us girls.. so, its really up to you.. topic: hmm.. problem? well, its not that big though.. i just ignore this sometimes.. but okay.. i'll share it.. maybe i can get a little advice from you guys.. i have this classmate of mine.. and he's sort of a makulet type as all of my classmates have known.. as i have remembered, he texted me last year.. he told me he liked me.. and asked me if he can court me through text only.. hmm.. at that time, i think its been a trend in our school or somekind of.. anyways, at first i just replied to him.. "ewan", "di ko alam", " basta", etc.. cause i was also a bit shocked and i don't know what exact words would i tell him.. then, the next day.. he was absent at school.. so i got a bit "relaxed", i think.. cause i got a little uneasy at home until the next day.. i kept on thinking that what would i tell him if we'll meet tomorrow? what if he keeps on annoying me?? gosh, i don't know what would i do.. but fortunately, he's absent.. haha.. then, i thought that's the end of it.. but then.. when he showed up in school and finally get the chance to talk to me one-on-one, i got shocked when he opened up that topic again.. and he keeps on annoying me.. he got my handkerchief, and tells me he wouldn't return it to me if i wouldn't tell him if he had a chance if he make ligaw.. until i got a little irritated.. and said no.. then, that's the time he give me back my handkerchief.. then, he made a little iwas.. after that, he didn't talk to me.. there was only one time when we had a school activity and we were all busy.. at that time, he was with those who were playing in the band.. you know, playing drums.. then, me and my friends were at the canteen.. we were just making "tambay" there.. i suddenly received a text from him.. he said hello and asked if i was just okay.. i just sent him a simple reply.. hmm.. i must say we've become friends.. he became kind to me since then.. and now? hmm.. well, he continues to annoy me sometimes.. but i noticed that when some of my classmates are teasing me, he always tells them to stop.. sometimes, i heard him say.. "oi, itigil nyo na nga yan.. wala namang ginagawa sa inyo yung tao.." at the back of my mind, i was thinking.. because i knew he's the type of person that always teases me, never stops in annoying me until i get irritated.. but when my other classmates do it to me, he's always on "defensive" act.. something like that.. hmm.. and this past few days, i was absent at school due to sickness.. i was absent for 5 days.. when i went back to school on monday, he asked me why was i absent.. and other questions.. i told him.. "syempre, may sakit eh.." he told me that he missed me.. i just ignore him.. when some of them teased me, he defended me by saying, "oi, wag nyo ganyanin yan.. namiss ko yan!" and just smiled.. then, i just looked at him like a "whatever" look.. unfortunately, after that i needed to be absent for medical reasons.. i received a text from him on wednesday night.. as usual, he asked me why was i absent.. still, i replied him with the same answer and also asked him why he was asking.. he just said that he missed me.. arrgh.. so annoying.. we had a little "kwentuhan".. then, he told me i should go to school tomorrow.. we had many to do in school "daw".. hay.. i find him too "makulet" cause everytime i'm in "serious mode", he would annoy me.. and some of my friends says that he sometimes becomes a bit "papansin" daw when i'm around.. he always try to make me laugh "daw".. whatever.. i just ignore this.. but if you wanna give an advice or comment about this, then i'm open for that.. [/quote] [/b]