Yeah. You have some good points in there. But why women thinks that the reason for them on leaving us men are because we did something wrong? Like we treat them bad and/or been harsh to them? What if the reason is that they really let their guard down, and let themselves fall to the third party? Do men really have to surrender to pain, and share the blames with her? You are a married couple. It is essential that the two member of that relationship should cooperate with each other, have an open communication, loyalty to each other, and of course trust. You are not kids any more. You two should think of the consequences that awaits whenever you do sins. Trust is broken once one of the member of the relationship did an awful mistake to the other. Like from your example situation, what do women think while they are in an affair? Do they think how painful for men to take those? How can men and their respective family take the humiliation that their wives brought to them? Anyway, you should really think carefully before making your decision whether to forgive your wife or not.

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