@ new topic: [spoiler]very common problem.. hehe anyway, to tell u honestly guys if u know ur friend is happy with the one she/he is committed with why don't u support him/her instead? u love your friend off course and you don't want to ruin that friendship you have. sometimes, we people think that when we reveal our friends what we really feel for them we think that it might ruin the friendship, agree? we maintain our pride on friendship so we tend to hide the feelings that we have and pretend we don't know anything. if u keep on hiding these feelings, it's useless.. off course u have to time it somehow in telling what u feel.. cause if u don't, regret is what u get.. [spoiler]by the way, my present boyfriend was my bestfriend.. haha i got this ideas because of him.. i didn't regret the fact that he told me about his feelings.. right now we are having a little conflict since i revealed him what happend about me and my ex.. (u know what im talking about..) and he was shocked since he was expecting me to be innocent and haven't engage in such.. i don't know if he could accept me for who i am.. he asked me to give him time and space so i did.. what do u think guys? will he still be accepting me for who i am? [/spoiler][/spoiler]