[quote=eehjhay]@tara what trouble is that?[/quote] Nah. i was just reading some posts on ftalk undeground : egroups discussion @ Topic, It's quite awkward for girls to open about being a virgin or not, they are very concerned about what other people thinks of them.. image / reputation is very important to us girls.. that's why it's quite embarrassing expressing our thoughts regarding that issue.. but for guys, they're more open when it comes to that and they sometimes use that issue to boost up their ego or reputation.. They think that it makes them feel more popular if they slept with this girl and that girl, the number of sex partners they have etc