hmm... well im not against about it but be sure that they won't hurt other feelings like wat xOLracnhOjx said, they both decided to do it(it takes two to tango ryt? ) there are lots of reason why they do it... love,lust , raging hormones or simply [b]pleasure[/b] btw there's a big difference between [b]love[/b] and [b]like[/b] like= to want to have or do something love=feel tender affection for somebody

[quote=cheuw]i am not sure about this..coz i havent experience wit this.. hahaha[/quote] so you thought that i had an experience about this? thats just my opinion, even i [s]never[/s] doin dat.. (who believe me?) [quote=sky]btw there's a big difference between love and like like= to want to have or do something love=feel tender affection for somebody[/quote] i love the way you talk...

^ i think for guys it's ok... well for girls...hmmm...think first 'coz you might regret it later:lol: just be responsible for it and for boys, have your [s]balls[/s] face the consequences.don't let your girl down btw...tnx kuya eehjhay for approving me

[quote]My question is, what do you prefer from the two? If you haven't had sex before, what you think that you will do, withdrawal or have a condom? Why?[/quote] neither i cant use that protection ur talking to...im a girl neither the second one so i'll go for pills but for my guy???hmm... let see.. [i]mini mini myni mooo....[/i] weeee...i chose the first one but wen ur short in money better choose the second one...lol

[quote=eehjhay]My question is, what do you prefer from the two?[/quote] well, using condoms is a males decision. i will give him the freedom if he wants to use or not. withdrawal too is a bit tricky. men tend to be alright with the precum thinking that its safe since primarily its purpose is for lubrication but in reality it already carries sperm. thats y i think its tricky. regarding pills, its a safe one specially if you follow the instruction carefully and never miss a pill. but the after result is, when a woman decided to be pregnant and she might have problems there. residue of the pills may be left behind and causes her not to be pregnant... so maybe i will stick with my calendar method..

For me, it's condom... i find it hard to control much, and besides, pre-mature ejaculation is very common to me.... So hard to control!!!

[quote=eehjhay]My question is, what do you prefer from the two? If you haven't had sex before, what you think that you will do, withdrawal or have a condom? Why?[/quote] Some guys do prefer not to use condoms coz it lessens the sensation, so they do apply the withdrawal or "coitus interruptus" method. Girls do prefer condoms to avoid getting pregnant and from being infected by some sexually transmitted disease. If you're sexually active and have multiple sex partners, it is advisable to use condoms, even if guys complain that it won't give them a great feeling due to the decrease of the sensation..they should take note that there are new condoms created for that purpose like the "ultra thin" type of condom. Withdrawal is okay but it's not 100% safe... guys do make mistakes sometimes which causes the occurence of teenage pregancies. Even if guys think that they were able to withdraw at that right moment, they should remember that premature ejaculation do happen which means a small amount of semen do come out before the major ejaculation occurs, and a single drop of it contains millions of sperms which is enough for that girl to get pregnant. If i'll be engaging myself thru premarital sex, i'll be encouraging my bf to use a condom... all i can say is the best birth control method is : ABSTINENCE Some guys can control it, some not... that's just the way it is take note : i'm still a virgin...why do i know all these stuffs? .....I'm a nurse

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estrogen are for girls. hehe.. is it?

@tara Yeah i've tried that ultra-thin one but still the feeling was really different without it. Well if the girl insist the guy to wear condom, of course we would wear it. If he won't, he'll be in trouble. He can be sued by the girl. Lol. Next topic please. Haha.. Why am I always starting a new topic? lol. [spoiler]Cybersex or Phone sex. These kinds of virtual sex over the internet and phone are really abundant nowadays. People to tend to participate in these activities since they are safe from diseases, pregnacies, and other things that people try to avoid. While in these activities, some people use sex-toys but we won't talk about sex-toys this time. We'll just discuss about the activity itself of having cybersex and phone sex. What cost this to be popular nowadays? Is it peer pressure? Is it to be "in" the fashion or whatever the term appropriate for it? Is it curiousity? Boredom? Craving? Self-pleasure? Well most of these questions are correct. But most people abuse this. Predators use these method for seeking minors. A World wide crisis which these brought onto every country. Anyway the real questions are... Do you think this is appropriate or alright for people to do this? Did you participate in these kinds of sex activities? Are you planning to do this? Do not be shy guys. Personally, I've done these so many times already. I won't deny it. lol[/spoiler]

Last edited by eehjhay (2008-05-12 19:29:36)

^ hehe.. glooo i think you forgot to browse the other pages here. :-p