^ Woohooo... I know you'll find the man who can fix your issues and straighten you up. -- Lol. I never thought is someone who will wait for my cheated and cheating relationship story. haha.. This story started in a CellPhone relationship with someone referred to me from my CellPhone buddies. Don't read it because it's boring... [spoiler]We know each other through cellphone clans. Her screen name (or I thought her real name) was Nicole. We talked a lot. One day, we decided to meet up. She said she was living in Paranaque (I forgot where in that place). She was surprise that I took it seriously and went to their area. When we were talking on the Phone, she was kinda avoiding me. Then I arrived in their area, she wasn't there to be found. She said she'll be there any minute. So I waited from lunch time until night, but still she wasn't there to meet me. I was pissed so I decided to go home and break up with her since she wasn't serious about me. She called when I was going home, she said she was sorry. She had too many excuses why she didn't come to meet me. After few days passed, I forgave her. We finally met in Quezon City. The time she saw me, she became obsessed to me. She often cuddle and flirt me even when we were on public areas. I know she will hurt me eventually, I can tell. So I cheated her. I had 6 more gf back then all at the same time (not just thru cellphone relationship). I had to have somebody to catch me if I fall that's why. (I was immature teen ager back then). After few days, she broke up with me. She confessed that she still love her ex-bf. She also confess that the person I thought her ex-bf who she broke up with was really not her ex-bf. That was just their show. What I mean is they fooled me so that I would not know the real ex-bf has still communication with her and still going out with her. I didn't thought that someone can organize a show or make terrible lies to put up his/her reputation and to prove that he/she is worth it.[/spoiler]

Last edited by eehjhay (2008-05-15 21:21:50)

^ Good. Very well said. I was a cheater before but when I finally found someone (my recent ex-gf), I changed a lot. I was like under by her control or something. From being a player who had 7 gf at the same time, became a one-woman man who will do anything and everything for his love one. -- I am wondering why the others aren't sharing even we tackle about matters of heart? Hehe.. I think they are shy?

@alota warmhart: good for you cause he was sorry.. a few lucky girls out there like you only experience those. But for others it's unfortunate. They cheated and never returned back again. They just say sorry and that's it. It's not good being cheated we all know that. I mean, who the hell would like it huh? Unless the other person cheats too, got no prob with that. I mean, when you think of it, it's kinda fun, cause u'll realize that many people are still after you.. nah.. just kidding. But sometimes, if the person is really serious, you get the conscience of breaking up with him/her (that's what i felt when I cheated before..) Now I remember back again when I was in love knowing that my ex-bf is also inlove with another person. Luckily, he told me about it when we were about to break up. But the fact that I realize that he never really love me at all when we were still on.. that hurts!! (actually this happened to me 3 times.. huhu )..

Last edited by gLoOo (2008-05-15 22:37:34)

^ hahaha...me too i haven't try that crime yet im sticked to one i dunno why maybe its because im kinda man hater(my crazy frnds usually tell dat to me) or should i say man-hate-her i think one is enough or maybe sometimes i should try it(for experience)

^i am sorry to say this but i think that story is a story of a broken hearted man u loved her so much but she didn't atleast she still cared and persuaded u not to cut ur life we all experience that to love and be hurt just like when being cheated...

Last edited by alotta_warmhart (2008-05-15 23:40:47)

^that guy was cruel he didn't even cared its like he's challenging u to do it... what an heartache is that being cheated with his own bestfriend! your still lucky you got out of the relationship fast coz he's not worthy of ur luv! eow!

is fling considered cheating... how could it be cheating if u both know u r only flirting.. i mean word cheating is really profound... a betrayal in a mutually decided relationship.. specially if theirs 3rd party involvement.. thats cheating for me... if i talked to u and be sweet to u am i cheating nhaa i guess not im flirting but not actually cheating dunno.. maybe.. haha toinkz... [i]labo ko hahahaha[/i] welcome to all new comer... feel free to post..muahss toall

Last edited by switpotato (2008-05-16 04:38:38)

thx for approve bro [b]@eehjhay[/b]

Yes. That was I said. Sometimes we consider cheating is fun but actually we are hurting our partners without realizing it. Until our partners get so depress and lose their trust towards us. Who have the rights to hurt someone anyway? Even if you hate a person, you should not hurt him/her. Anyway this topic is consuming so much time. I think that's enough, right? -- [spoiler]Who's turn? We all know (at least almost all), that having sex is not really pleasurable. Sex is like give and take. If your partner is not doing anything, he/she benefits mostly during sex, you have to explain to him/her that you two have to be fair. If your partner isn't doing anything or not participating enough while having sex with you, it is either your partner have some issues or your partner don't take the sex seriously. Like we always say, Sex is the short word for Love Making. So if your partner isn't doing anything that much for you, then he/she don't take your relationship seriously or he/she is so layback/relax which they tend to forget your feelings. In your experience, who usually work a lot while having sex? Is it you or your partner? If you don't have any experience yet, is it alright to you if your partner will not going to participate enough while having sex? What will you do it make it fair?[/spoiler]

Last edited by eehjhay (2008-05-16 12:23:58)

cheated? yep i have been there. it was the most painful thing but i found the best part of it. i dont get to spend to much load. got more time for my studies. and most of all, i found other suitors which is better that him. but the worst part after our relationship, every stupid thing that i did to stay for the relationship starts to sink in. i laugh at other memories and feel silent for the other.. specially the most silly part where i stupidly took suicide just the sake of our relationship.