@ eehjhay: that's so cruel.. but the important thing is you managed to move on.. not get stucked from what happened.. ate swit: i guess flirting isn't cheating. I mean it's just a flirt. no deep feelings involved... actually i still have flings before back with my ex-bfs.. but i didn't considered those feelings that much but during those flings they started to confess that they already have fallen in love with me and OMG! i don't know what to do.. (such a bad girl am i?? )