Yes. That was I said. Sometimes we consider cheating is fun but actually we are hurting our partners without realizing it. Until our partners get so depress and lose their trust towards us. Who have the rights to hurt someone anyway? Even if you hate a person, you should not hurt him/her. Anyway this topic is consuming so much time. I think that's enough, right? -- [spoiler]Who's turn? We all know (at least almost all), that having sex is not really pleasurable. Sex is like give and take. If your partner is not doing anything, he/she benefits mostly during sex, you have to explain to him/her that you two have to be fair. If your partner isn't doing anything or not participating enough while having sex with you, it is either your partner have some issues or your partner don't take the sex seriously. Like we always say, Sex is the short word for Love Making. So if your partner isn't doing anything that much for you, then he/she don't take your relationship seriously or he/she is so layback/relax which they tend to forget your feelings. In your experience, who usually work a lot while having sex? Is it you or your partner? If you don't have any experience yet, is it alright to you if your partner will not going to participate enough while having sex? What will you do it make it fair?[/spoiler]

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