Well yeah cheating is sometimes fun to do but if you think of it carefully, you are just hurting people who love you. They expect to give the same [b]respect[/b] that they are giving to you. They trust you to take care of them by being loyal and faithful. Once you cheat your partner, there will be a crack in your relationship, even a huge gap. But in some cases, it can still be fix depending on the various factors. This is the story of me and my first-ex gf who I really devoted myself and attempted to gave my life for her... [spoiler]I was really really inlove to my ex-gf. I went to her area from Manila to Marikina almost everyday, it was an hour train & other transport travel. I spent so much money and time for her. Even I sacrificed my work hours just to be with her. The time passed by, she eventually lost interest. I tried everything. She broke up with me saying so many excuses such as her parent insisted her to be single until she reach the right time, and such as she said our relationship wasn't working anymore. But then after few days, I saw her Friendster account that she has a new bf! I was like totally freaking out in the computer shop. I liked to throw the computers but good thing my friends advised me not to do that. They remind me how much are the units. Haha.. Anyway because of my depression and grasp in despair, I attempted to end my life. I ask for a favor to her to meet up for the last time. When I confess what I was going to do, she started crying and begged not do to such thing. She persuaded me not to do it. After few days, she refused me to contact her. I was being friendly but I didn't know why she acted like that. Well if she asked me to go away from her, then so be it. I won't force myself being with someone who doesn't like me to be with.[/spoiler]

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