[quote=eehjhay]My question is, what do you prefer from the two?[/quote] well, using condoms is a males decision. i will give him the freedom if he wants to use or not. withdrawal too is a bit tricky. men tend to be alright with the precum thinking that its safe since primarily its purpose is for lubrication but in reality it already carries sperm. thats y i think its tricky. regarding pills, its a safe one specially if you follow the instruction carefully and never miss a pill. but the after result is, when a woman decided to be pregnant and she might have problems there. residue of the pills may be left behind and causes her not to be pregnant... so maybe i will stick with my calendar method..