lolz... i thought i missed a lot since i haven't been visitng ftalk this past few weeks.. whew! anyway sorry for being off topic.. going to the new topic now... SOPs and all those kinds of stuff? eehjhay's right.. it is much safer that the physical one.. since it doesn't have physical contact.. haha well if we compare it on the physical one, <--- that is much better... because the pleasure u get is more enjoyable than that of the self pleasure... but off course if u prefer the much safer one, it's your decision.. after all, this is one of the methods of natural family planning [spoiler]as for me, i tried doing this (harhar ) back in high school when the swapping of sim cards was in... and i was actually searching for some desperate numbers in the chat room live on tv for sop and got to fool with them... haha but i just did it on text not with actions... i guess this was based on my curiosity what it feels like.. harhar and besides, since i got my first exp on sex, all the curiosity got out from me.. [/spoiler]