[b]@topic about condoms or withdrawal:[/b] i wud definitely use the withdrawal method. (as always) and we all guys knew about this already ayt? and my point is, if u can't use withdrawal method, then use condom or any other contraceptives. its easy as it is guys. but for me, i tried condom only once. then since tat nyt, i never use condom wen havin sex already. hahahaha. @topic for the cybersex/phonesex maybe its about boredom and self pleasure (like wat ej said) coz like for example, the guy is in a far far far away from her gurl. u know, sometimes the guy needs a pleasure, needs to be satisfied or somethin`. then i think tats wen the thing called "[b]creativity[/b]" that [b]jieduck[/b] said takes place. and for me. i dun really have a plan to do this thing. and bcoz, i dun even like long distance relationships too.