Yeah. Matters of heart are included in this group.
Next topic would be...
[spoiler][b][li]Being cheated by your partner...[/li][/b]
One thing is for sure, it's really painful. In every angle you see, every advice you seek, every memory you can think of, you can not prevent yourself from being hurt due from being cheated by your partner at least once in your life. The worst scenario would be your partner is having sex with another man/woman. (But actually the worst would be your partner having sex intercourse with same gender).
Anyway although you think of this as a tragic event in your life, you can appreciate some things from it. The benefit of learning how to yield from pain, how to arise from despair, and how to be prepare for the possible next bad scenario that would occur. Eventually you might want to give thanks to your partner (or rather ex-partner after seeing the tragic) because he/she strengthen you emotionally, physically, intellectually, and might be socially.
If you find yourself stuck in this bad scenario and got depress from it, think of it as a challenge for yourself. You are challenging yourself to pass this obstacle in your journey in life. Yes, pain is also included in our lives.
What is the worst scenario or event that you encounter that relates to relationship with your partner/ex-partner? What did you do to overcome it? Or if you still in despair, are you going to let yourself being stuck in that misery?[/spoiler]
Next topic should be discussed...
[spoiler][li]Cheating your Partner[/li]
Dont start with this topic. Just concentrate on the previous said topic.[/spoiler]
Last edited by eehjhay (2008-05-15 03:05:33)