4 months only? Sows! It doesn't matter. 4 months can not be compared to the hard work and effort that you put in order to have money for your own needs. He's abusing you so he could get financial benefits. That's totally way farout freaking waaa.. hahaha.. Just break up with him. Yeah breaking up is really difficult thing to do. But what else can you do. [b]You can never force anyone to change their personality.[/b] If you won't act immediately, you will end up losing him, losing your money, abused your body, totally depressed, the worst will be the attempt to suicide. This is not a joke. People who being abused by other people to gain money end up going to streets doing various dirty things, getting itself mentally incapable of taking itself, and suicidal.