woah second chances huh... i think there's nothing wrong in giving a person second chance. i admit that i cheated my partner before and it was sooooo UNFORGIVEABLE as the other person stated there oh... yet after sometime of realizing things in my life, after some reflections on what i had done to my relationship with that person and having "some" regrets why i did those horrible nightmares of my being so pathetic, i was given a chance to move on and make a new life. i know things will never be the same as before i did those cheating but im still praying that with my efforts on doing things that will change and cover those that i did before, i know somehow things will get better. [spoiler]i learned to avoid living in bitterness yet live life with bright purposes... that's what my mistakes and wrong deeds have given me. to think of the future and not about the past.[/spoiler]