[quote=alotta_warmhart]but what if u enjoy hurting ur partner or the one being hurt during the intercourse but ur partner doesn't enjoy it or he/she is not complaining but u can see his/her face like he/she doesn't really feel doing it and not really enjoying. what you'd do then? continue coz u like it or just do the normal to adjust with your partner but not really contented?[/quote] well if that is the case..maybe i'll just do the normal act..i think more of my partner's satisfaction than to myself....and it will make me feel that im not able to satisfy her , which is really insulting on my part!